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Women who are not pleased by Allah Allah has created humans in the form of women and men who both have an obligation to worship Allah SWT. As explained in QS Adh Dhaariyat verse 56: "I did not create jinn and humans except that they worship me." Allah SWT destined that men are not the same as women, as explained in QS. Ali Imron verse 36: "and men are not equal to women." Men have a role as protectors of women (wives), so Allah has given some men more than women, as explained in QS. Annisa verse 34: Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala says: "The man (husband) is the protector of the woman (wife), because Allah has preferred some of them (men) over others (women), and because they (men) have provided from their wealth. So the virtuous women are those who obey Allah and guard themselves in the absence of their husbands, for Allah has guarded them. Those women whom you fear may be unfaithful, advise them, leave them in their beds, and (if necessary) beat them. But if they obey you, then do not look for reasons to trouble them. Indeed, Allah is Most High, Most Great." (QS. An-Nisa' 4: Verse 34). Women have untsa characteristics that are different from men, namely 3 specificities of women that are not owned by men: 1. Women can conceive, as explained in QS. Al-A'raf verse 189: Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala says: "It is He who created you from a single soul (Adam) and from him He created his spouse, that he may feel pleasure in her. So when he mixed with her, she conceived a light pregnancy, and he continued to be light (for some time). Then when she became heavy, both of them (husband and wife) supplicated to Allah, their Lord (saying), "If You had given us a righteous child, surely we would have always been grateful."" (QS. Al-A'raf 7: Verse 189) 2. Women can give birth 3. Women can breastfeed, as explained in QS. Albaqoroh verse 233: Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala says: "And mothers should breastfeed their children for two full years, for those who wish to breastfeed fully. And it is the duty of the father to provide for them and clothe them in an appropriate manner. No one should be burdened with more than he can bear. Let not a mother suffer on account of her child, nor let a father suffer on account of his child. The heirs are obliged to do likewise. If they both wish to wean by mutual consent and consultation, there is no sin on either of them. And if you wish to have your child suckled by another, there is no sin on you in giving payment in an appropriate manner. Fear Allah and know that Allah sees what you do." (QS. Al-Baqarah 2: Verse 233) It is so great that Allah honors women by bestowing these three virtues. So that Rosulloh ordered to do good to your mother three times more than your father. And among the virtues of women is obeying their husbands, for women who already have husbands. As explained in QS. Annisa verse 34: "So the righteous women are those who obey (Allah) and guard themselves when (their husbands) are absent, for Allah has guarded (them)". As explained in the hadith from Abdurrahman bin 'Auf, he said that Rasululloh SAW said: "If a woman always keeps the five daily prayers, also fasts a month (in the month of Ramadan), and really keeps her genitals (from adultery) and really obeys her husband, it is said to women who have this noble trait, "enter heaven through whichever door you like."" However, some wives today forget their obligation to obey their husbands. They often utter disrespectful words to their husbands, leave the house without their husband's permission, and betray their husbands. This is a woman who is not pleased by Allah, as explained in QS. At-Tahrim Verse 10: Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala says: "Allah made a parable for the disbelievers, the wife of Noah, and the wife of Luth. They were under the care of two righteous servants among Our servants; then the two wives betrayed their husbands, but their husbands could not help them in the least from the punishment of Allah; and it was said to the two wives, "Enter you both into Hell with those who enter it."" (QS. At-Tahrim 66: Verse 10) May we all always istikomah run all the commands of Allah SWT and stay away from all His prohibitions. Aaminn